So apparently the hardest part is convincing my fiance that this is a good idea. I had no idea that I would even have to convince him. I mean, this is my grandfather. He is one of the most important people in the world to me. How is going through the effort of planning a wedding even compare with losing my grandfather? I don't know what I'm going to do now.
Anyway, the original plan for today was to find out how much financial support my future in-laws would be willing to give us. As of now my budget is $0. Not sure what to do with that.
More talking with the fiance will commence later today. By the way, my therapist is completely on board with the idea.